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Things you should not do in Thailand
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Today were talking about what you shouldnt do in Thailand because its rude and what you shouldnt do at all that is even forbidden by law.
Many things are completely normal for us. Therefore, some things are done completely wrong by 90% of foreigners, where a Thai must think to himself,
"Dont foreigners have any manners at all?"
Many things are completely normal for us. Therefore, some things are done completely wrong by 90% of foreigners, where a Thai must think to himself,
"Dont foreigners have any manners at all?"


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The greeting in Thailand is extremely hierarchy-based. One person is always higher and the other lower. The wai is the greeting where you put your palms together. This greeting is actually always done incorrectly by tourists. The lower person greets the higher person first. For example, a 20-year-old should greet an older man first. But if you are 40 years old and greet a young waitress in a restaurant with a "Wai", this is extremely disturbing for the Thai person.
In their eyes, its like it is with us, for example, we dont go up to our boss as an employee and do a high five, but wait as a rule and then usually only shake hands when the boss specifically approaches you.
It is always the one lower in the hierarchy who greets first. So the young waitress in the restaurant greets us first. Afterwards, however, we dont do an exaggerated wai or even bow. The waitress would feel "taken for a ride", because she knows that the tourist is higher up and wants to show her respect for the tourist (the higher up).
To put it bluntly, when you visit your grandparents and you naturally respect them and shake their hand, you dont fall on your knees like before a king, that would be strange and the grandparents would just feel "screwed". Therefore, you should reduce this to a simple placing of the palms together, meaning without any additional bow or curtsy with the head forward. Place the palms together for a second, thumbs up and below the chin. Basically, the tourist is held in high esteem, because as a "rich" foreigner he is held in higher esteem than a simple employee in a restaurant, even more so if it is a female employee.
The king and then any monk is at the top of the hierarchy.
Age and status come right after. Elderly or wealthy people are just as high up as mayors, for example.
Men are generally higher than women.
Therefore, a 20-year-old Thai woman will always greet a 50-year-old Thai man first. The other way around would be disturbing and would not make sense to the Thais. Older men are constantly seen doing the "Wai" when they are interested in a pretty Thai, probably as a funny greeting. At this moment, however, every Thai person with a view of what is happening gets a headache straight away, and you can often hear them whispering to themselves "Ill get a headache".
The Thais do not expect a "wai". If you do, you will probably do it wrong, but this is forgiven. A simple wai / the normal greeting would be to put your hands together and hold them below your chin. Do not bow and do not hold your hands at the level of your face.
Recommendation: No Thai expects a wai from a foreigner. A normal greeting by raising a hand or waving is considered more normal. Since the wai is done out of respect and the foreigner is probably doing it for fun, it is rather always inappropriate to do a wai as a tourist.